Be a comforter,not ruiner

Recently I got a very touching message from one of my old friend. She needed help and advice. But at that time I was in a situation where to pour out my worries and problems. But going through her words, I knew her pain and how much she needed me.so I  took courage to forget my problems  and gave my time for her. Some decisions in our life make us  realize  who our real & true friends are. Friends & loved ones whom we  helped and cared  fail to recognize  you. It hurts when someone uses U only for their selfish needs.  I have seen total strangers act like angels-sent-from-heaven lending a helping hand when U needed them in an adverse situation. When I would be feeling at the lowest, a good friend or two would call me on phone just like that, to be a shoulder to lean and that would uplift my spirits. I  believe that God taught me how one should ‘be’ or ‘not be’ to others in life. I have felt God’s love in many ways in the form of many people.. sometimes it maybe a phone call from a friend whom U hadn't be expecting to call or maybe a chat in FB.so when God gives me strength in my hands to support others in need, I will by God’s grace rise to the occasion. I also ask you all too to be a comforter & friend-in-need to a family member or a relative or a friend, where sometimes at least a phone call would be valued very much. BE a blessing to all.Be a comforter not a ruiner!